Guy Trouble...Please Help ASAP!

tennisj204 · 02-03-2007, 05:18 PM

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kcboy231982 · 02-03-2007, 06:20 PM

wow. what a problem. i see two options:
1. i would talk to your friend and hide the fact that you like her bf. Just say theres someone else or something.
2. tell your friend the truth.
I hope all goes well.

kellierox02 · 02-03-2007, 06:33 PM

Wow...... ummm........well I have the same issue (kindof) right now!! And I think u should tell him that u dont wanna go out w/ him. Because if u dont then he might think u r really crushing on him, and cant make up ur mind. (thats what a guy thought when I didn't like him LOL)
but I dont think that u need to add the part about u liking the other guy, because if he is getting his hopes up then he will be really ssad. I think he will me MORE sad if u tell him that u like the other guy. If u tell him, no, then u just say u dont want a boyfriend right now.........
U CAN PM ME IF U WANNA TALK!!
~Sammy!!~

CalamariKellie · 02-03-2007, 07:37 PM

woooh

tennisj204 · 02-03-2007, 09:01 PM

Thanks guys.

I still don't know what to say, especially since I just talked to M and she said that he's been asking her all day what I said to her, which had been nothing yet...And all of us involved are friends. J has also asked out 3 other girls before, and almost asked out M and her friend, so I really don't know...

kellierox02 · 02-03-2007, 09:33 PM

If you are open to your parents about guys and stuff u can ask them? A mom is a great person to ask about stuff like that! LOL I hope u dont be sad anymore! Whatever decision u make, I know it will be a really goon one!!!!

tennisj204 · 02-04-2007, 10:42 AM

Thanks Sammy, but no I don't really talk to my parents about that stuff, but my mom does know he asked me....
Well the only progress I've made is that I'm going to somehow say no, because really I don't like him like that, but the party is at 5!!! I've gotta think of something...And only 2 other ppl are gna be there!
Thanks for your help guys

I'm thinking of just saying that I'm not ready for a bf yet, but yesterday I remembered that last week he asked if I had a bf, I said "No", then he asked if my parents let me date, and I said "Well they never said I couldn't..."

texdale · 02-04-2007, 04:27 PM

The only person that can look out for you is you.....Life is full of decisions..
Make the choice the one that is best for you but at the same time show your feelings for the others involved....

tennisj204 · 02-05-2007, 10:56 AM

Updates...

tennisj204 · 02-06-2007, 04:32 PM

Ok this is what happened....
First me, M, and J went bowling with our little siblings, and it was kinda awkward between us, but anyways...later they invited me to go see Epic Movie, and as it was starting he pulled out the bear again and said, "So will you?" I said, "Actually I just want to be your friend..." And he said ok and seemed kinda sad and ignored me the rest of the movie, but he usually doesn't talk to me much anyways lol...
But thanks for your advice everyone! I love my KF Family

CalamariKellie · 02-06-2007, 07:34 PM

All that letter stuff got me confused!

Glad it worked out!