Advise?

s dot · 12-17-2006, 07:13 AM

Hey my name is Livve and since i'm so new I figured I'd present you with one of my problems haha. See I married this guy Mario when i was 18. Well, he ended up cheating on me with someone who i considered a friend, but now we're back together. It's really difficult for me to be 100% optimistic about Livvie and Mario redux. I'm really trying trust him but thats the hardest part, ya know? When he tells me he's going to jersey on business it's hard to believe him, especially considering he pretty much cheated on me right in front of my face, whats stoppin him now? "That was a long time ago" "that was in the past" is all he keeps saying but i can't help but be suspicious...

pick_pickler23 · 12-17-2006, 07:19 AM

to KFans!

My name is Amanda.

I have a little story for you, but I won't post it here because it's private...but I will send it to you and hopefully you can benefit from it.

Chris Carrie Kellie · 12-17-2006, 11:21 AM

Im sorry idk. ask him

kcboy231982 · 12-17-2006, 06:41 PM

Welcome! You got one hard problem there....I'm not Dr. Phil or anything but i say listen to your heart...and trust your heart. If that makes any sense whatsoever.

sawgod · 12-17-2006, 06:43 PM

Hi and welcome. hate to say this, but once a cheat, hard t ochange the way. I been there with my (premenant) ex, 3 times. First, shame on them, 2nd shame on you, but I was dumb enough to go the 3rd. "bout killed me. I trusted her word. Your choice though. THINK IT THROUGH!

kellierox02 · 12-17-2006, 07:54 PM

Welcome, I am Sammy, I have no clue to really ansewer ur questions, because I am noly 13, but if I were you I would sit down and talk to him, keep everything pleasnt, and he will probally give u answers to what u would like to know!
Hope I helped!
~Sammy!!~

steve · 12-18-2006, 05:42 AM

Welcome. I have to agree with my buddy,Sean. The odds are better that he'll do it again than that he won't do it again. Does'nt mean he will.....those are just the odds.

mckenzie361 · 12-19-2006, 05:33 PM

Hi! My name is McKenzie, welcome to Kellie Fans!

Sorry, I don't really know how to answer this question, i'm only 12. =)

Kellie_Rules! · 12-20-2006, 06:53 AM

Welcome,I'm Judy.

I really don't know how to answer that question as I haven't been married yet,but I guess you couls hire some detectives to follow him...No,bad idea. I've been watching Hitchcock again and so right now everything I'll say will be something like that...I'll come back later when my mind's a little more clear.

CarrieNKellie · 12-20-2006, 09:12 AM

hey!! well first of all if he cheated on you he will probobly do it again!!! But then again he may really be going where he tells you he is!! and i am only 12 but if he cheated on you and he decided that he didnt like you and that he liked that othert girl then he probobly would have dumped you and went with that other girl!! But since he accually came back then idk!! But i would tell him about it and then see what he says!! But dont dought hes probobly cheating on you again!!!! sry i am only 12 so thats wht i would do!!! need more advice or sumthin PM me!!!

stupidl0vesong · 12-20-2006, 04:40 PM

It's hard to say what to do unless you've been in a situation like that. I tell myself "I wouldn't take him back" but the truth is, love is blind and can make you do silly things.

I think if you're having your doubts you need to have a serious talk with him and see how things go. If you still have your doubts then maybe you need to think about what your future has in store for you. Afterall, 18 is a young age to get married and I'm sure the both of you have changed quite a bit since then.

kelliesmyidol06 · 12-20-2006, 05:44 PM

Welcome! I'm Lauren.

I'm sorry, but I really don't know what to say about your story.